Exes are, by definition alone, bad news. Exile, excommunicate, exclude, extradite, exhume, exhausted…do any of these words give you a warm and fuzzy feeling? There’s a reason that “ex” comes before “boyfriend” – and it’s best to leave that relationship in the ground where it belongs and not try and recreate a moment that probably wasn’t all that great to begin with. Besides – if you’re filling up your calendar with X’s, you’re leaving no room for O’s – as in “Oh, he’s so wonderful!” - so the only “ex” you should be headed for is the exit, lady, and quickly!
At the end of the day, recycling exes might not be bad for the environment, but it’s bad for YOUR environment. If he didn’t make it past your past, he’s certainly not worthy of your future, so quit wasting time on “what might have been” and look ahead to what might be! Just because “ex” didn’t mark the spot doesn’t mean there’s not still buried treasure to be found…most likely where you’re least expecting it. So here’s a shovel. Start diggin’.
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